Wednesday, January 21, 2009

You know you parent a special needs child when...



You compare ER's instead of grocery stores.

You compare your child's oxygen saturations.

You view toys as "therapy."

You don't take a new day for granted.

You teach your child HOW to pull things out of the cupboard, off the bookcases, and that feeding the dog from the table is fun.

Everything is an educational opportunity instead of just having plain old fun.

You cheer instead of scold when they blow bubbles in their juice while sitting at the dinner table (that's speech therapy), smear ketchup all over their high chair (that's OT), or throw their toys (that's PT). You also don't mind if your child goes through the house tooting a tinwhistle.

You fired at least 3 pediatricians and can teach your family doctor a thing or two.

You can name at least 3 genes on chromosome 21.

You have been told you are "in denial" by at least 3 medical or therapy professionals. This makes you laugh!

You have that incredible sinking feeling that you've forgotten SOMETHING on those few days that you don't have some sort of appointment somewhere!

Your vocabulary consists of all the letters OT, PT, SP, ASD, VSD, IFSP, etc.

You keep your appointment at the specialist even though a winter blizzard is raging because you just want to get this one over with.....you waited 8 months to get it.....and besides, no one else will be there!

Fighting and wrestling with siblings is PT. Speech therapy occurs in the tub with a sibling.

When potty training is complete, you take out a full-page public notice in the Washington Post.

When the Doctors/Specialist/Hospitals etc. all know you by your name without referring to your chart.

You keep a daily growth chart.

You calculate monthly statistics for the number of times your child vomits, and did this for more then one year.

You phone all your friends when your child sits up for the first time, at age two.

With a big smile on your face you tell a stranger that your four-year-old just started walking last week.

Her medical file is 25 inches and growing.

You have a new belief...that angels live with us on earth.

How blessed we are to have Lauren in our life.

**You other special needs moms know how true these are. And for those of you who don't have a special needs kiddo, these are completely for real...I had to laugh as I read them because I could have written this list! Kiss your children. They are all gifts from God.

Still waiting on our Travel Approval (TA). Pray with us that it comes next week! We are ready to hold our girl. One more picture for your viewing pleasure. Anna is the 2nd from the left...the cutest one!! : )

3 comments:

Jennifer Mann said...

thanks for having Austin at your house, he really enjoyed visiting with family!

Kelly said...

Yes, that is quite a list and oh so true!

Mrs. Becca said...

Hi Mansfields!

I was definitely nodding my head along while reading it:) I miss seeing Lauren but praise God for every bit of progress I hear about through Mom and your blog. And I will definitely come up as soon as I can when you return with little Anna!! God bless!

Rebecca